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Posted: 19-09-08 Fri 2:23 am
by 小周
PREVENTION PROGRAMS

ANTI-VIOLENCE.

Early intervention is necessary to prevent youth violence. Elementary education training in anger management, impulse control, appreciation of diversity, and mediation and conflict resolution skills can help prevent youth from engaging in violence as they mature. Early discussions about the negative consequences of gang membership, and providing children with positive ways of getting personal needs met, can protect them from future gang recruitment efforts. Educating young children about the use of guns is also valuable, since accidents have happened as a result of children's naivete about their danger.

Age-appropriate training in self-esteem development
and stress management and reduction, especially for students living in poverty or in difficult family circumstances, can help transform negative feelings into positive coping skills
. Other types of training, introduced to students at later developmental stages, covers development of "refusal skills" to help youth resist using substances and engaging in sexual activity, and how to prevent date violence, with particular attention to battering during teenage pregnancy.

Some schools have a specially trained safety coordinator or a committee whose primary function is to coordinate anti-violence programs and to respond to crisis situations by offering counseling and mediation. Schools may also have crisis centers, which are staffed places where students who commit or threaten an act of violence can go to receive on-the-spot counseling and to "cool off."

Other types of programs take a positive approach to violence prevention by offering incentives for good behavior, such as a recognition and reward system for good school citizenship. The goal is to bring about a change in the students and school climate so that normative behavior is constructive.

ANTI-GANG.

Even more than violence prevention in general, effective anti-gang strategies involve all school operations and staff. They require establishment of a positive school climate, good communications and security, a staff trained in crisis intervention, and a coordinated effort. They also require that schools not only acknowledge a gang presence, but that they actively investigate its extent and accurately determine who the members are, what they do, and where they congregate. Finally, good strategies require schools to acknowledge that preventing, and even reducing, gang activity will be a protracted trial-and-error process during which many different tactics are employed.

A first step is often establishing and widely publicizing the philosophy that a gang presence (clothing and paraphernalia, as well as behavior) will not be tolerated. Policies that flow from the philosophy include a dress code and prohibition on flashing gang signs, shouting gang slogans, and writing gang graffiti on school or personal property. Discipline measures, meted out consistently, which escalate with the number or severity of infractions, demonstrate school seriousness.

Schools make an extra effort to involve potential and active gang members in academic, extracurricular, and counseling programs. Providing gang members with effective educational supports, such as tutoring, can reconnect them with the rewards and value of academic achievement. Staff who takes a personal interest in individual members can help loosen the hold of the gang. By meeting informally with members and arranging for positive experiences that are probably otherwise lacking in their lives, staff can provide students with some of the affirmation that gangs offer. To do this, staff members may need to change their attitudes about gang members and take more time with certain students than they usually would.

Involving parents by providing them with information about their children's gang activity and its possible consequences, and counseling to help them deal with the problem, can enlist them as allies in the effort to rid the school of gangs. Schools can also provide access to outside agencies that offer counseling. As a last resort, gang members can be transferred to alternative schools for more intensive support.

Posted: 19-09-08 Fri 2:29 am
by 小周
REMEDIES AND DISCIPLINE

School districts are aware that some students simply cannot function in a regular classroom, and many have created alternative schools for students who have been suspended or expelled, or are at risk of suspension. These schools incorporate intensive individual and group counseling into the educational program. To prevent the alternative schools from becoming warehouses that fail to turn around disruptive students, staff takes care to develop individual plans for students with the goal of returning them to a regular school.

Schools also may provide similar programs as an add-on for students who are placed in detention or who remain in their regular school. Some effective intervention programs focus on modifying beliefs and related behavior; examples include aggression replacement and anti-bullying training. Some districts include a community service component in their alternative program; a few even require that students' volunteer assignments allow them to see the results of violence firsthand, so they may work with injured crime victims.

CONCLUSION

Concern about increasing youth violence is being channeled into a variety of innovative, and potentially effective, programs around the country. Although components vary depending on the particular needs of the community, the most effective programs:

*Make an accurate assessment of the existence of violence and, especially, gang activity.

*Use all the resources in the community, including social service and law enforcement, and not just rely on school officials to deal with the problem.

*Incorporate family services into both community and school programs.

*Intervene early in a child's life.

*Include not only anti-violence strategies but also positive experiences.

*Create and communicate clearly defined behavior codes, and enforce them strictly and uniformly.

*Prepare to engage in a long-term effort.

In all communities it is likely that sometimes anti-violence work will be compromised by lack of resources and time, and that even the most dedicated individuals will feel frustrated. Early evaluations of well-organized programs suggest that success is possible, though; and statistics demonstrating an increase in youth violence, however slight, indicate that the effort and the expenditure are necessary.

Posted: 20-09-08 Sat 1:40 pm
by 舜本
老黄 wrote:
微沁 wrote:Laozhu不理我。。。。 :nangis:
他是这样“衰样”的啦!
我让他看雍正,不给看乾隆,他就去放生螃蟹,祝我身体健康,可以四处奔波。
对您的帖子,他就说要细细品尝,慢慢咀嚼。
但是一看老黄的帖子,未及细看,就说我在du他!
真是!
老黄,这你就不能怪我了。我一向就是对女子‘厚道’。
自从四年级暗恋一位女老师后,就变这样的了。
呵呵。

昨天,在食堂,两位学生情侣,大庭广众前,又拥又吻。
我就在旁边,几位同样经验不少的学生,围着我,
问:chu,你几岁谈恋爱了。
看到机会来了,只好牺牲内幕消息,
我直接说:4年级时就暗恋徐老师。。。。。。
学生听了,捧腹大笑。然后,我们就继续聊了。。。

可惜的是,今天,报纸娱乐版里,却没有看到我的劲爆恋情。 :(

Posted: 20-09-08 Sat 2:25 pm
by 舜本
小周 wrote:除了用“可怕”或“恐怖”之字眼来形容当下学生,我们还能做什么呢?

不如先参考专家的意见,再来集思广益吧。

[转贴]
http://www.ericdigests.org/1998-1/overview.htm


An Overview of Strategies To Reduce School Violence. ERIC/CUE Digest No. 115.
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While the public is ready to believe that school violence is ever-present, some local leaders and school administrators are not willing to acknowledge its occurrence on their own watch. Their position is based on the fear that people will boycott communities and schools labeled unsafe, and that they will be blamed for failing to keep the peace. Gang activity at school is particularly susceptible to "the Ostrich syndrome," as administrators may ignore the problem. An unfortunate consequence of such denial is that opportunities to reduce violence are lost.

Finally, there is sometimes a contradiction between school policies and practice. Whereas many districts and schools have comprehensive regulations for dealing with violence, enforcement may be uneven or lax. This creates a situation where teachers do not feel supported when they impose discipline, students do not feel protected, and the violence-prone think they will not be punished. Conversely, administrators express dismay that teachers do not enforce policies in their classrooms.

Despite these inconsistencies, many promising types of anti-violence strategies, focusing on both discipline and social and personal transformation, have been devised by government, communities, and schools. Most have originated in urban areas, where youth violence was first identified. This digest reviews a variety of the policies, programs, and practices to prevent youth violence (which are described more fully in the publications cited at the end), so that local leaders can base decisions about their own efforts on the experience of other communities.
我非常认同这个观点。到味。
这确实是很多老师(或关心教育者)的迷思:大家无法对目前学生的纪律情况下一个客观的判断。就如我校的情况,如果你板着脸或一脸爱心的问我校的老师(包括我自己):你们的学生真的,真的那么坏吗?
我们的回答,很有可能是:说真的,他们不坏来。。。其实,他们不坏的。。

这是为何呢?除了以上文理所提的原因,还有:
(1)人的问题好多事主观的。他很坏“坏”。“坏”大半是主观的。
(2)乐观主义哲理:每个人都会改变的。
(3)爱心教育观念的迷思:
---(a)以爱心看人,每个人都是好人。
---(b)每个人都有希望。现在坏,不等于以后坏。所以,有时这种观念落在感性的判断,现在坏,不等于以后坏,所以现在的坏不是坏。
(4)谦卑的心。有自知之明的老师,都难直言说:我要‘改变’他们。
所以‘有时’会虚伪或虚心地、矛盾地判断纪律问题。
(5)失去教育的目标。尤其,纪律的目标是什么?
(6)失去纪律的标准。这个时代,是道德解构时代、也是道德重建时代。
什么道德是好?是坏?
(7)仁与礼的千年疑惑。学生的外在好/坏,不一定就是内在的好/坏。
(8)教育者的个人敏感各异,期待也不一样。
(9)情绪化判断。心情好时,“学生不坏。”心情不好时,“没要救!”
(10)西方的教育理论、哲理的干扰。不是反对西方教育学,而是很多专家忽略了,大马学校里的情况(硬体、软体、系统、政治、种族。。。)

Posted: 24-09-08 Wed 4:55 pm
by 舜本
全校巡回剪发。

学校某方面的纪律实在太差。
那天,我把一份纪律建议书交上去了。
我不是纪律老师,这份建议书是再三思之后,才交上去的。
PK1,看了好高兴。

今天,纪律主任找我一起operasi。
我们三个男老师、两个女老师,全校‘巡回’剪发。
我与纪律主任拿着剪刀梳子,一个一个剪。
纪律主任使的是一刀切,而我就慢慢的‘修’。
不少学生都自动要求我剪。
我想,人都是爱美的,所以,刀法就用心一点,这样也不会被学生‘恨死’。

过了几班后,
老师们说:“Chu,mane keretamu。”
我说:“Tepi blok ini saja。”
老师说:“Bahaya,mari kunci,saya tolong alihkan。Kalau tidak,pecah,habih gaji。”
一位男老师,赶快帮我移开了车,放在PK1的位置。


我校的纪律主任的车镜曾被学生弄破,花了六百块。
(当然,这样算是普通的了。)

Posted: 28-09-08 Sun 2:23 pm
by 舜本
那天,观察一位初中生几天后,发现他为何一直穿那破烂的运动鞋来上课。
由于,我不是他那班的老师,只好找机会与他聊天。
原来,他的半黑破运动鞋是婆婆给的。他用白色涂改液把鞋涂白当校鞋用。

经过简单的背景调查,我买了一双鞋送给了他。
他高兴极了,
说:“老师,以后我赚大钱给我妈妈和给你!”

听他这一说,福利协助工作还是容易过教育。

Posted: 10-10-08 Fri 2:19 pm
by 舜本
那天纪律行动之后。
早上我一到学校,走过Blok A楼下的厕所,
刚好一群F3的学生,大概十位,集聚在哪儿。
其中一个不修边幅,又胖又高,相当勤劳在外打工的学生,
平时与我的关系不错,今早为了前一天,我剪去他过长的头发,
他对着朋友特大声的喊,
“我还有很多毛,
要剪就剪我的下面的!!!!!!他妈的!!!”

他是喊给我听的。

为了不引起对立的感觉,
想着,这个需要用较长的功夫与他谈谈,
所以,我只长笑而去。。。继续我手上的工作。

隔了一天,我找到机会与他轻松的谈开,现在又好回了。

我遇过不少这样谩骂、羞辱、身体暴力推开老师的学生,
许多都必须另找时间,
‘委屈’自尊,跟他们‘好好’的谈,po luo suo(闽南)。
有时,觉得现在的孩子真是--大晒。

所以,常常提醒自己,教育孩子不可用自尊,而是爱与耐心。
不过,很难lei。

Re: 教育挑战

Posted: 10-10-08 Fri 6:27 pm
by mingyin
Lao Zhu wrote:希望能在这里记录些学校故事,
多是有关学生,而也可能多是负面的故事 (向教官这样,专看负面的)。

我的学校这几个月来不断发生车子被刮花的事件,好多老师都中招了,实在查不出是谁的杰作.我的是小学呢,都会这样了.怀疑是否是学生好玩,或一个过动儿的杰作,也怀疑过是否有学生要报复老师.做了突击检查,但都没结果.不知如何是好.好大胆的学生.

Posted: 10-10-08 Fri 10:27 pm
by 小花狗
看了这些帖子,有哭的感觉!

教育由家里开始,只是靠教师的醒觉是很难改正目前的风气。

是否,该教育父母呢?

孩子其实不坏,但为什会这样?

孩子都是这样的啦!

这样的啦又是谁造成的?

......
忽然想起我那两个中学生,他们是否也是这样的啦???

Posted: 20-10-08 Mon 9:22 pm
by 舜本
小花狗,mingyin,

谢谢你们的分享。

由于,可能我在教育的路上算年轻,
至今我还是不断在想些方法教育。

对我来说,这些是教育挑战,
即使,有时很气馁,自尊受挫,
但是看到那些孩子的脸,
有些一脸不屑、凶煞、令老师怀疑等等。。。
平下心来,远远望去,他们是需要我们的分享。

如果他们不需要我们的“指导”,
可能他们是需要我们的分享;
如果他们不需要我们的分享,
我有时也是当着萍水相逢,拍怕肩膀,互相问候。

所以,在学校,最基本的,不管他们是‘极坏’的学生、
曾经辱骂、对我动粗的学生,
在校园里碰到,有机会,我还是会自动微笑问候,
先不想他们是什么坏蛋,
只当他们是一个---生命。
(有时会忘记。)

小花狗 wrote:看了这些帖子,有哭的感觉!

教育由家里开始,只是靠教师的醒觉是很难改正目前的风气。

是否,该教育父母呢?

孩子其实不坏,但为什会这样?

孩子都是这样的啦!

这样的啦又是谁造成的?

......
忽然想起我那两个中学生,他们是否也是这样的啦???