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一桩只能用良心对话的悲剧
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2010年12月9日，22岁的江枻丰疑与拍拖4个月的18岁女友含怨分手，不堪失恋打击的他，心灰意冷在面子书写下遗书并倒数自杀，从蕉赖寓所的14楼跳下，送院抢救后不治。
备受丧子之痛的江运来，自我沉殿多月之后，有意将儿子江枻丰倒数自杀事件搬上银幕，以警惕世人不要轻言放弃生命，以真人真事角度开拍一部短片，他本身在电影中演出父亲角色。
这部短片“关键时刻”在本月6日上载至YouTube上后，点击率已经累积到数千人次。在片长15分钟的短片中，江运来在片中凝望着儿子的遗照时泣不成声，让人闻之心酸。
江运来说一心一意希望将儿子的故事，以教育性质拍成电影告诫世人，但社会却是现实的。短片在YouTube的上载后，被一些网民留言恶评，指江运来“消费”儿子，甚至把儿子生前的女友“摆上台”，认为是“错误的示范”，“令人很反感”，他只能感到无奈，并交由其它网民去评论。
网友排山倒海的挞伐，数日后，江运来由于心力交瘁而暴毙。他的猝死，使人不得不从这悲剧的巧合中怪责网友用情绪围剿和骂死了江运来，江运来去年动过一次心脏手术，今年4月再做一次，两次的心脏手术已经使他体力大不如前，他却坚持要四下奔波，拍摄短片，还接见了无数上门的求助者，提供各种能力所及的援助。
但他用心良苦纪念爱儿，用本身的切肤之痛解救与他儿子同样面对情伤的年轻人，却得不到掌声，反而是，那纯粹有警惕性和教育性的短片，却招惹网友沉重的骂名。这个社会是如何的冷酷，网友们凭着意气和情绪，容不下作为父亲用自己的方式，做有意义的工作来纪念亡儿。
江运来在父亲节前夕，接受星洲日报访问时，曾表示自己只能无奈地面对网民的恶意攻击对网民指他“消费儿子搏出名”的恶意留言，当时他意味深长地说：＂要出名也不是让家人去自杀，然后自己搞这么多事情，更何况那是我儿子，你试试看，叫你的家人去自杀，然后你也这样来搏出位！＂
江家对网友不知因由的恶骂无从“伸冤追究”，现在，只能交给那些口出恶言的网友，用自己的良心对话重新探讨这场悲剧。
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Why some dissatisfied users are shunning Facebook
By Blake Snow, Special to CNN
June 20, 2011 -- Updated 1608 GMT (0008 HKT)
Editor's note: Blake Snow is a freelance writer and media consultant. He lives along Utah's Wasatch Mountains with his family. Contact information and published works can be found on his website.
(CNN) -- There's no denying the cultural impact of Facebook. It has united almost 700 million people, including most of you reading this, becoming the greatest social introduction platform the world has ever seen.
But there are also some recent signs of "Facebook fatigue." There is only so much you can do to socialize online, especially after you've exhausted your friend list. Some people also complain they're spending so much time on Facebook that they're short-changing the rest of their lives.
Evidence suggests a small but increasing number of users -- at least in North America, where Facebook use is especially saturated -- may be shunning the site. The site lost more than 7 million active users in the United States and Canada last month, according to data from the blog Inside Facebook, although Facebook disputes those figures.
Others are consciously reducing the time they spend on the site.
"I figured out that I wouldn't look back as an old man and wish I had spent more time on Facebook," says David Cole, an IT manager from Boston. Cole said he believes the popular social-networking site is a useful tool, but not a replacement for what he calls "realbook" experiences.
"Instead of working on an essay, I would waste time browsing people's walls," says Kip Krieger, a college student from Virginia, who like Cole has consciously reduced how much time he spends on Facebook.
On top of that, Facebook has become predictable, Krieger says.
"It's really gotten to a point where I know pretty much what my friends are going to post. They usually just write the same thing over and over again, and I am getting sick of that."
Joshua DeRosa, a Salt Lake City graphic artist and former Facebook user, agrees.
"I don't need to see pics or hear updates about people's babies," he says. "I know what babies look like, and while you might think what Junior did was the cutest thing ever, I couldn't care less."
Others contacted for this story say constant status updates may inadvertently discourage more meaningful and sensory interactions that can only take place offline.
"My mom quit Facebook because she wanted us to call her on the phone and see her in person more," says a 29-year-old Provo, Utah, man who wishes to remain anonymous.
Maybe mother knows best. "It's working," he says.
Obviously, there are a lot more satisfied customers of Facebook than disgruntled ones. You don't get to half a billion users by upsetting people. So are these outspoken Facebook shunners a tiny minority or part of a growing trend (or both)?
Facebook won't say how many users have deleted their accounts, so the trend is difficult to quantify. But if you type "d-e-l-e" into a Google search query, "delete Facebook" is the No. 1 predictive result, meaning it's a popular search among Google users.
Never mind the numerous pages of related articles on "how to" and "why you should delete" your Facebook account.
Facebook spokesman Barry Schnitt, however, maintains that any such withdrawal is minor and short-lived.
"More often than not, people who deactivate do so temporarily and come back after a break," he says, "like students pausing to focus on finals or people going camping and not wanting their profile to be untended for a weekend."
Entrepreneur Max Salzberg, on the other hand, says the exodus is real.
"Thinking that Facebook is forever is like thinking that AOL was the be-all-end-all of the Internet," he says. "Eventually, everyone will use something else."
Salzberg hopes you'll use his upcoming Facebook alternative: a rival site called Diaspora that promises to help keep users' worlds from colliding.
Diaspora lets users sort friends into groups so updates and photos are shared only with certain people, not everyone on one's friend list. The idea is that mom, for example, will no longer be privy to the more intimate details of your life.
Still in its alpha, or by-invitation-only phase, Diaspora also has settings that are by default private.
"Since Diaspora is actually made up of a bunch of sites across the Web, it is about sharing in the way you want and letting that drive how you express yourself," he says. "Giant monolithic social networks don't make much sense."
Another Facebook alternative called Path limits users to 50 friends. The goal, says founder (and ex-Facebook exec) Dave Morin, is to promote intimate and memorable sharing.
Still, it's hard to ignore the social behemoth that Facebook has become, especially since more than half of all Americans now have an account.
"I do feel pressured to participate," says DeRosa. "People act like you are an alien when you tell them you aren't on it."
Toby Bushman, 27, of Southern California, felt so much pressure that she decided to rejoin Facebook, and is glad she did.
"Having that connection with others is a very powerful thing," she says. "It makes me feel like I'm a part of something bigger and more grand than just my life as a stay-at-home mother."
Even some of those who grumble about Facebook admit they'll never completely dump the site. "There are too many people I want to keep in contact with," says Krieger.
Facebook officials say their service is good for people.
"Facebook can be like broccoli," Schnitt says. "Everyone can benefit from it but not everyone will want to.
"But you won't know until you try," he adds. "Thus, we'd encourage you to sign up and share as little or as much as you want. If you have a good experience, we hope you'll stay. If not, come back and see us again, because we're constantly working to improve the service and delight people in ways that aren't possible offline."
Why some dissatisfied users are shunning Facebook
By Blake Snow, Special to CNN
June 20, 2011 -- Updated 1608 GMT (0008 HKT)
Editor's note: Blake Snow is a freelance writer and media consultant. He lives along Utah's Wasatch Mountains with his family. Contact information and published works can be found on his website.
(CNN) -- There's no denying the cultural impact of Facebook. It has united almost 700 million people, including most of you reading this, becoming the greatest social introduction platform the world has ever seen.
But there are also some recent signs of "Facebook fatigue." There is only so much you can do to socialize online, especially after you've exhausted your friend list. Some people also complain they're spending so much time on Facebook that they're short-changing the rest of their lives.
Evidence suggests a small but increasing number of users -- at least in North America, where Facebook use is especially saturated -- may be shunning the site. The site lost more than 7 million active users in the United States and Canada last month, according to data from the blog Inside Facebook, although Facebook disputes those figures.
Others are consciously reducing the time they spend on the site.
"I figured out that I wouldn't look back as an old man and wish I had spent more time on Facebook," says David Cole, an IT manager from Boston. Cole said he believes the popular social-networking site is a useful tool, but not a replacement for what he calls "realbook" experiences.
"Instead of working on an essay, I would waste time browsing people's walls," says Kip Krieger, a college student from Virginia, who like Cole has consciously reduced how much time he spends on Facebook.
On top of that, Facebook has become predictable, Krieger says.
"It's really gotten to a point where I know pretty much what my friends are going to post. They usually just write the same thing over and over again, and I am getting sick of that."
Joshua DeRosa, a Salt Lake City graphic artist and former Facebook user, agrees.
"I don't need to see pics or hear updates about people's babies," he says. "I know what babies look like, and while you might think what Junior did was the cutest thing ever, I couldn't care less."
Others contacted for this story say constant status updates may inadvertently discourage more meaningful and sensory interactions that can only take place offline.
"My mom quit Facebook because she wanted us to call her on the phone and see her in person more," says a 29-year-old Provo, Utah, man who wishes to remain anonymous.
Maybe mother knows best. "It's working," he says.
Obviously, there are a lot more satisfied customers of Facebook than disgruntled ones. You don't get to half a billion users by upsetting people. So are these outspoken Facebook shunners a tiny minority or part of a growing trend (or both)?
Facebook won't say how many users have deleted their accounts, so the trend is difficult to quantify. But if you type "d-e-l-e" into a Google search query, "delete Facebook" is the No. 1 predictive result, meaning it's a popular search among Google users.
Never mind the numerous pages of related articles on "how to" and "why you should delete" your Facebook account.
Facebook spokesman Barry Schnitt, however, maintains that any such withdrawal is minor and short-lived.
"More often than not, people who deactivate do so temporarily and come back after a break," he says, "like students pausing to focus on finals or people going camping and not wanting their profile to be untended for a weekend."
Entrepreneur Max Salzberg, on the other hand, says the exodus is real.
"Thinking that Facebook is forever is like thinking that AOL was the be-all-end-all of the Internet," he says. "Eventually, everyone will use something else."
Salzberg hopes you'll use his upcoming Facebook alternative: a rival site called Diaspora that promises to help keep users' worlds from colliding.
Diaspora lets users sort friends into groups so updates and photos are shared only with certain people, not everyone on one's friend list. The idea is that mom, for example, will no longer be privy to the more intimate details of your life.
Still in its alpha, or by-invitation-only phase, Diaspora also has settings that are by default private.
"Since Diaspora is actually made up of a bunch of sites across the Web, it is about sharing in the way you want and letting that drive how you express yourself," he says. "Giant monolithic social networks don't make much sense."
Another Facebook alternative called Path limits users to 50 friends. The goal, says founder (and ex-Facebook exec) Dave Morin, is to promote intimate and memorable sharing.
Still, it's hard to ignore the social behemoth that Facebook has become, especially since more than half of all Americans now have an account.
"I do feel pressured to participate," says DeRosa. "People act like you are an alien when you tell them you aren't on it."
Toby Bushman, 27, of Southern California, felt so much pressure that she decided to rejoin Facebook, and is glad she did.
"Having that connection with others is a very powerful thing," she says. "It makes me feel like I'm a part of something bigger and more grand than just my life as a stay-at-home mother."
Even some of those who grumble about Facebook admit they'll never completely dump the site. "There are too many people I want to keep in contact with," says Krieger.
Facebook officials say their service is good for people.
"Facebook can be like broccoli," Schnitt says. "Everyone can benefit from it but not everyone will want to.
"But you won't know until you try," he adds. "Thus, we'd encourage you to sign up and share as little or as much as you want. If you have a good experience, we hope you'll stay. If not, come back and see us again, because we're constantly working to improve the service and delight people in ways that aren't possible offline."
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《親子天下》：父母最擔心孩子上網透露個資
2011-12-09
作者：陳雅慧
《親子天下》雜誌今年11月對全台灣國高中生閱讀習慣調查發現，「臉書」是青少年中唯一的「強勢媒體」。一半以上，56%的青少年表示，上網時最常閱讀臉書。這一代的孩子可說是讀臉書長大的。但是，社群網站的高度連結性，不但讓個人隱私面對很大的風險，也讓孩子提早暴露在沒有大人保護的世界中。
根據賽門鐵克諾頓最新發布的全球調查，使用社群網站小孩中，有74%有過不愉快的網路經驗，不使用社群網站的小孩只有38%有過類似經驗。根據同樣的調查，父母對於孩子上網最大的三個擔心分別是：擔心孩子向陌生人透落太多個人資訊、擔心孩子碰上問題的網友、擔心孩子看到猥褻的圖片。
另外，在《親子天下》的調查中，也發現父母的學歷是影響孩子是否沉迷網路的關鍵因素之一。
諾頓的全球孩童調查也看到：有訂下網路使用家規，且能遵守的孩子在網路上遇到負面經驗，比起有訂家規、但不遵守的孩子少了一半。
可見，父母的態度是孩子是否網路沉迷的關鍵。
少年仔，看過來，別以為這些不犯法！
網路匿名罵「不要臉」……
今年8月，35位新北市國中生被同班同學上法庭控告誹謗。起因是一位女生在圖書館被另外一位同學潑水，上部落格抱怨此事，竟然又被潑水的同學夥同其他34位同學，以「醜」、「不要臉」在網路上圍剿。後來這位在網路上被罵的同學心靈受創，家長憤而提起誹謗訴訟連告35位學生。後來，被告學生的家長，還有該校校長不僅公開在媒體面前出面道歉，兩造也在法院二度開庭，尋求和解的可能。
「人肉搜索」是正義的使者？
去年年底，台南一所國中傳出，5名少年深夜闖入校園掃射梅花鹿。學校公布監視器裡少年「殺鹿」畫面，網友義憤填膺在網路上流傳影片並企圖人肉搜索找到5名少年。但後來案情逆轉，5名少年是「救鹿」，驅趕攻擊梅花鹿的野狗。網友在網路上強烈抨擊，人肉搜索公布少年身分，造成當事人和家庭承受莫大壓力。
若以法律追究，未經過當事人同意即公布資料可能侵害隱私權和名譽權。若是造成當事人因此被退學或是解雇，可能侵害受教權或是工作權，必須負損害賠償的責任。
網路言論全部自由？
網路上因為匿名，孩子會錯以為什麼都能說、都不必負責，但網路上的言論也是有界線的。數年前，新北市一位13歲的國中女生，架設了完全自殺網站，鼓吹和提供自殺相關資訊，後來被警方查獲，以「刑法」加工自殺罪嫌移送法辦。
PO援交訊息，好玩而已……
未成年少年電腦犯罪類型中，比例最高的就是援交。年輕的小孩，以為只是PO好玩，沒有真的援交，但是根據「兒童及少年性交易防制條例」規定，只要刊登援交訊息，即使沒有真正從事性交易，也屬犯罪行為。
駭客，小心警察上門
去年台北市一名14歲吳姓國三學生，在凡那比颱風襲台期間製作行政院人事行政局假網頁，對外「宣布」：各縣巿「今日起停班停課一年」。警方傳喚學生到案說明，學生表示只是一時好玩，把假網頁放在部落格上，被同學與其他網友看到，轉貼到網路。他懊悔︰「沒想到事情會鬧這麼大。」少年行為涉嫌偽造公文書，屬公訴罪，可處1年以上、7年以下有期徒刑，警方訊後將他函送少年法庭。
《親子天下》：父母最擔心孩子上網透露個資
2011-12-09
作者：陳雅慧
《親子天下》雜誌今年11月對全台灣國高中生閱讀習慣調查發現，「臉書」是青少年中唯一的「強勢媒體」。一半以上，56%的青少年表示，上網時最常閱讀臉書。這一代的孩子可說是讀臉書長大的。但是，社群網站的高度連結性，不但讓個人隱私面對很大的風險，也讓孩子提早暴露在沒有大人保護的世界中。
根據賽門鐵克諾頓最新發布的全球調查，使用社群網站小孩中，有74%有過不愉快的網路經驗，不使用社群網站的小孩只有38%有過類似經驗。根據同樣的調查，父母對於孩子上網最大的三個擔心分別是：擔心孩子向陌生人透落太多個人資訊、擔心孩子碰上問題的網友、擔心孩子看到猥褻的圖片。
另外，在《親子天下》的調查中，也發現父母的學歷是影響孩子是否沉迷網路的關鍵因素之一。
諾頓的全球孩童調查也看到：有訂下網路使用家規，且能遵守的孩子在網路上遇到負面經驗，比起有訂家規、但不遵守的孩子少了一半。
可見，父母的態度是孩子是否網路沉迷的關鍵。
少年仔，看過來，別以為這些不犯法！
網路匿名罵「不要臉」……
今年8月，35位新北市國中生被同班同學上法庭控告誹謗。起因是一位女生在圖書館被另外一位同學潑水，上部落格抱怨此事，竟然又被潑水的同學夥同其他34位同學，以「醜」、「不要臉」在網路上圍剿。後來這位在網路上被罵的同學心靈受創，家長憤而提起誹謗訴訟連告35位學生。後來，被告學生的家長，還有該校校長不僅公開在媒體面前出面道歉，兩造也在法院二度開庭，尋求和解的可能。
「人肉搜索」是正義的使者？
去年年底，台南一所國中傳出，5名少年深夜闖入校園掃射梅花鹿。學校公布監視器裡少年「殺鹿」畫面，網友義憤填膺在網路上流傳影片並企圖人肉搜索找到5名少年。但後來案情逆轉，5名少年是「救鹿」，驅趕攻擊梅花鹿的野狗。網友在網路上強烈抨擊，人肉搜索公布少年身分，造成當事人和家庭承受莫大壓力。
若以法律追究，未經過當事人同意即公布資料可能侵害隱私權和名譽權。若是造成當事人因此被退學或是解雇，可能侵害受教權或是工作權，必須負損害賠償的責任。
網路言論全部自由？
網路上因為匿名，孩子會錯以為什麼都能說、都不必負責，但網路上的言論也是有界線的。數年前，新北市一位13歲的國中女生，架設了完全自殺網站，鼓吹和提供自殺相關資訊，後來被警方查獲，以「刑法」加工自殺罪嫌移送法辦。
PO援交訊息，好玩而已……
未成年少年電腦犯罪類型中，比例最高的就是援交。年輕的小孩，以為只是PO好玩，沒有真的援交，但是根據「兒童及少年性交易防制條例」規定，只要刊登援交訊息，即使沒有真正從事性交易，也屬犯罪行為。
駭客，小心警察上門
去年台北市一名14歲吳姓國三學生，在凡那比颱風襲台期間製作行政院人事行政局假網頁，對外「宣布」：各縣巿「今日起停班停課一年」。警方傳喚學生到案說明，學生表示只是一時好玩，把假網頁放在部落格上，被同學與其他網友看到，轉貼到網路。他懊悔︰「沒想到事情會鬧這麼大。」少年行為涉嫌偽造公文書，屬公訴罪，可處1年以上、7年以下有期徒刑，警方訊後將他函送少年法庭。
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社交媒体10大讨厌行为
据美国《华尔街日报》31日报道，社交媒体信息流质量下滑的情况在全球都存在。今年早些时候，Facebook联合加利福尼亚大学、旧金山大学和康奈尔大学对“负面的”用户分享行为进行了研究。《华尔街日报》中文版举例说明了其中常见的10种“讨厌”行为：
人生赢家
在朋友圈里炫生活什么的最讨厌了。这类人好像无时无刻不在吃大餐，在旅游兜风，在扫货购物……他们的生活是跑车、香槟、夜宴的交响曲，随时等你点赞。
欲擒故纵
这类人通常会发这种信息：“受不了了！我快死了！”这时朋友就会纷纷问你怎么啦没事吧。当然没事，不然都快死了还想着发朋友圈？说到底还是撒娇求关注。
点赞狂魔
虽然被关注是好事，但也不必发个啥都点赞吧，尤其当你说自己生病了，失恋了，Ta也要来“赞”。透过手机屏幕都能感受到Ta灼灼目光……
意见领袖
这种人有发不完的意见。他们什么都看不惯，什么人都看不上。
“@癖”患者
这类患者发条信息圈一堆人，拿评论区当版聊。你被圈得莫名其妙又无可奈何，只能默默忍受自己不断接到提醒。@癖患者有朋友来你的城市玩，他会圈上每个当地好友，就算你们根本不认识这人。
负能量之王
在他们眼里，世界永远不会好了。感情上总是遇到人渣，室友总是遇到变态，连度个假都总是能遇到挑刺吵架的人，总之全世界都对不住他们。
狗奴猫奴
他们一看到喵和汪就难以自持，总是照照照、晒晒晒，万幸的是他们还没娃。
沉默的福尔摩斯
他们用风景或默认图标当头像，不发言不评论不点赞，和隐形人没两样。但实际上他们默默看着你的生活点滴，知道你每个动向，聚会时总是料最多的那一个。
游戏大咖
大咖拉人进游戏能获得额外奖励，大家就是他们的升级跳板。但跳板也有尊严，被大咖弄得烦不胜烦时只能以“友尽”相挟。求人转发广告者也请好自为之。
无限秀恩爱
他们好像连体婴一样，什么都不能阻挡他们在镜头前脸并脸嘟着嘴自拍的热情。这对亲密爱人如果出去旅游，他们的恩爱照会淹了朋友圈。
来源:大洋网-广州日报
据美国《华尔街日报》31日报道，社交媒体信息流质量下滑的情况在全球都存在。今年早些时候，Facebook联合加利福尼亚大学、旧金山大学和康奈尔大学对“负面的”用户分享行为进行了研究。《华尔街日报》中文版举例说明了其中常见的10种“讨厌”行为：
人生赢家
在朋友圈里炫生活什么的最讨厌了。这类人好像无时无刻不在吃大餐，在旅游兜风，在扫货购物……他们的生活是跑车、香槟、夜宴的交响曲，随时等你点赞。
欲擒故纵
这类人通常会发这种信息：“受不了了！我快死了！”这时朋友就会纷纷问你怎么啦没事吧。当然没事，不然都快死了还想着发朋友圈？说到底还是撒娇求关注。
点赞狂魔
虽然被关注是好事，但也不必发个啥都点赞吧，尤其当你说自己生病了，失恋了，Ta也要来“赞”。透过手机屏幕都能感受到Ta灼灼目光……
意见领袖
这种人有发不完的意见。他们什么都看不惯，什么人都看不上。
“@癖”患者
这类患者发条信息圈一堆人，拿评论区当版聊。你被圈得莫名其妙又无可奈何，只能默默忍受自己不断接到提醒。@癖患者有朋友来你的城市玩，他会圈上每个当地好友，就算你们根本不认识这人。
负能量之王
在他们眼里，世界永远不会好了。感情上总是遇到人渣，室友总是遇到变态，连度个假都总是能遇到挑刺吵架的人，总之全世界都对不住他们。
狗奴猫奴
他们一看到喵和汪就难以自持，总是照照照、晒晒晒，万幸的是他们还没娃。
沉默的福尔摩斯
他们用风景或默认图标当头像，不发言不评论不点赞，和隐形人没两样。但实际上他们默默看着你的生活点滴，知道你每个动向，聚会时总是料最多的那一个。
游戏大咖
大咖拉人进游戏能获得额外奖励，大家就是他们的升级跳板。但跳板也有尊严，被大咖弄得烦不胜烦时只能以“友尽”相挟。求人转发广告者也请好自为之。
无限秀恩爱
他们好像连体婴一样，什么都不能阻挡他们在镜头前脸并脸嘟着嘴自拍的热情。这对亲密爱人如果出去旅游，他们的恩爱照会淹了朋友圈。
来源:大洋网-广州日报